I go to bed pretty early due to the fact I have a busy job. I'm up around 4:30a to get ready and start work. I've had to train myself to be a morning person. My wife gets up later than I do, and often isn't ready to sleep. Who said anything about sleep? Alright, here's what I do. I announce its time for bed. I turn off the television. I turn off all lights (even in the room she's in), lock doors, and head up. What does she do? She tells me I'm so demanding. I smile and let her know she can stay down there if she wants, but I'm headed up. She says she doesn't want to be down there alone, and hold out her hand for me to pull her up. No problem. I pull her up and forcefully pull her into me as I do. I tease her "Hey now, all you had to do was ask for a kiss". She hits me in the arm. So, that's what I do. She typically doesn't stay down there, and we end up having some fun sex. Afterwards she gets to watch reruns of Modern Family as I sleep.